Why I Think You’re Beautiful

I have been meaning to tell you this for a long time. Seriously.

Why did it take so long to get written? I guess I was struggling with the honesty of it…is it too raw?  Maybe.

The crazy thing is that I haven’t been able to get it out of my head so I figured it was a sign, minus the booming voice from above, flashes of lightning and angelic song. Just a small, soft nudge in my gut that I needed to tell you why I think you’re beautiful.

The longer I tread this earth with my un-pedicured toes the more I value friendship. When I look back over the course of life I realize there are seasons of friendship. I smile thinking of those who ran along railroad tracks with me as we searched for a swimming hole, those who climbed trees with me and scaled to the rooftops of school buildings.

Those who taught me how to dance and dream.

Those who climbed mountains with me and raised children alongside my own. Those who are finding their way as empty-nesters just like us. Those who helped me navigate the often treacherous waters of the working world.

It is to each of you that I write this: You are loved.

You are unique…not in some weird miss-matched, un-kept way…more like a gem. Beautiful. Brilliant. Rare. I find myself staring at you and thinking deep thoughts about grace and purpose, forgiveness. Healing.

You know I love you, right? From the moment we met your light has warmed my heart. Your gifting’s have graced my life and I am fuller, richer for it.

Yet sometimes you ache over the lack in your life, the unfairness of it all. How your contribution to the world has gone unnoticed and unappreciated.

Don’t you see? You HAVE changed the world – you’ve changed me! Each raindrop of you that has soaked into my skin has nourished me in some way, encouraging me to be strong.

Your beauty shines. I was drawn to your passionate heart immediately. Strength was in your resolve, a willingness to bare your soul and yet afraid of rejection…common heartbeats between us. Camaraderie, friendship, validation.

You think that hardship has stolen your light. It feels like the ugly, rotten things have won. I am here to tell you that is a lie! Every day that you get up and decide to LIVE has created a depth of beauty no plastic surgeon could ever duplicate.

The impact of your life is powerful. It doesn’t come from dressing in monochromatic colors to hide the few pounds you hate. It doesn’t come from carefully applied make-up to shield the world from the pain underneath. Advertisers are wrong! The power of your life is in being YOU. How can it come from a boob job or lypo?

Beauty is in your voice. Not the timbre or tone but in the sweetness of trials, loss, love, joy that have been etched into your story. I thank you for sharing it with me.



7 thoughts on “Why I Think You’re Beautiful

  1. Wow. Beautiful words and thoughts. Finding our way as empty nesters ranks right up there with the potty training years. Blah. Hoping to find some purpose after children. Thanks for the encouragement. Praying for Parker.

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  2. That is absolutely beautiful Rhonda. Your words always resonate so strongly with me. You are an amazing person and friend and I hope you know what a difference you make in my life and that you are loved. Miss you.

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  3. Thank you Karen! What a beautiful friend you are to me!! Thank you for your prayers and support…we’ll keep you posted. Ah…love that the little Cox is on his way in September!!! Can’t wait to meet him!!


  4. Wow! You’re such a gifted, amazing writer, Rhonda. Thank you for sharing your gift with us. It is an honor to be your friend. I love people who are real! Thank you for being you and for the beauty you share with others. Loren told me that Parker has a date for surgery. That’s crazy scary but so good, too. I’m praying for him and for you and your family as you go through this time. This is serious stuff but I know it’s all good. God has a purpose for everything and His timing is perfect, too! Meghan found out she’s having a baby boy a month earlier that thought! Baby Cox is now due September 29th instead of October 30th and that makes me feel better. I think I can handle two newborns now! Thanks Rhonda and see you Sunday! Sent from my iPhone


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